"Year 2013"

I don't know what to say about this year, whether it was good or bad for me. I have mixed thoughts for this. This year started on a good note, the most awaiting event was his sister's marriage, so he was busy in that. January 2013 Di got married, we all were very happy for her. And soon after Di's marriage, our marriage talks started, which was pending for so long.

Our parents got ready finally and took decision that engagement should be in July and marriage would be in the end of year.

And after 5 months, finally the day arrived for which we both were waiting for ages. Our Engagement day 11th July 2013. We both were happy as well as tensed because when you do love marriage, you just feel everything should go hand-in-hand. Nobody should get angry on anything. All the arrangements should be proper. 
On the day of engagement, in the mid afternoon his family arrived at my place along with his relatives. After a quick refreshment we all proceeded to the convention hall for engagement function.

In the evening all the function started, first his parents did some rituals for me and then my parents did for him. After all these rituals the final moment came the Ring ceremony and we exchanged the rings... Aaha a moment to be remembered and cherished forever.


I stayed for 1 more week along with my parents and then I left for Bangalore. Till you are single, you won't feel any responsibility but take my words with one Ring in your hand, come lot of responsibility and I seriously realized that after my engagement. You automatically feels yourself mature.

Well now our parents started discussing about our marriage date. Since it should  be held in end of month, they need to fix the date as soon as possible as it was already July month and you wont get marriage hall booking easily in India.

And it was end of July month and my birthday. Well it was the best birthday ever with a heart shaped cake with a nice message on it, balloons, birthday capes, friends and we too.

Well I am feeling short of words now, can't describe my this phase properly as I don't want to re-call what happened after this.. worst August month of my life. Everything was going fine, my parents started preparations for my marriage, suddenly one day I got a call from my dad's number, but it was someone else who was calling me from my dad's phone. My Dad fell in an auto and that auto driver called me from his phone, I was screaming, crying, asking that guy to please take him to hospital as quickly as possible. After sometime I again got the call but this time I got the news which I never wanted to hear...my Dad left us, my life came to an end.
We were totally shocked from this incident... It was very difficult for all of us to get over from this and to start life normally.

I can't write more..on this, will continue this year 2013 journey in part 2 of this title.

To be Continued..
Stay tuned!!