New Year... New Beginning..

Wow! we were in new year and he was back from his home after 2 long weeks. It feels so good when you see your love and it feels even more good when you see each other after a long time. We were back in our small world, same routine, office--> PG...etc 

One day my sister called and asked me that are you sure that you want to get married to him only as my parents were asking my sister to talk to me about marriage and if I am OK, they'll start looking for guys. And I told her that yes I am sure about him and please tell to Mummy Papa about me and she said No, I will not going to tell them, You only have to tell them everything. I got scared and didn't replied to her after that.

After 2 months, One day suddenly during office hours, my sis called me and said Mom called me and she said they got one proposal for you and Mom asked my sis to speak to me and tell, what to do...?

My sis said this is the time now we should tell to them that here the scene is different. And I told to my sis, please tell them and she agreed to speak to them. OMG!! Those 3-4 days were toughest days of my life and I think these days are toughest for all those people's life when you have to admit your parents that you love someone and want to get married to the same person. 

My Mom didn't speak to me that day, I called her and she was angry. I started crying and said Mom please don't get angry, if you and Papa are not happy with this, I'll not marry to him. I will never go against your's and papa's wish. But please meet him once and see for yourself, even if you don't like him tell me, I'll not ask you again for this. She felt good and felt relaxed but she was worried, how to tell to my dad.

Next day in night, she told to my dad and she was very much scared as what'll be my dad's reaction but it was absolutely contrary of what we thought, he was neither happy nor angry. He was absolutely neutral and he said I am OK with this.

It took 1 full week for my Mom and Dad to get normal to me and started speaking normally to me as usual. Goddd.... somehow I passed those toughest days... felt relaxed!!!

To be Continued.... Stay Tuned!!

The HP Joining..

This was the day, we waited for almost 3 months. He joined and got his desired technology.
He was happy and so was I. He was enjoying and why not when you get a chance to work for a big organisation, you should enjoy! 

After a month or so, Diwali festival came. I went home for Diwali but he didn't as he joined the company a month ago only and it was not possible to get leaves so soon. It feels so bad to be far away from home specially on festivals, but he managed as he had planned to go next month during new years time. 

On other side as we were going through a roller coaster ride, my sister asked me one day about my relationship status and I was not having any other option but to tell her the truth. I told her everything about us and our relationship and she was at that time neither said yes nor no. And being a big sister she advised me to think properly and decide wisely. After all she's elder sister and her worry for me was justified. 

On my professional front, I was still struggling as I was not satisfied with my technology and work. But I was learning to cop up with professional environment, office politics, diplomatic people and so on. Meanwhile he planned to buy a bike as he was uncomfortable to travel in local buses....crowded buses, pick-picketers and sweaty people, you just can't handle them everyday. So our mission "Bike"started. We saw and tested so many bikes but it was hard to choose among them all. 

Well it was December and he was going home for vacation and I too had my leaves in hand which were going lapse for that year, so I too asked my manager for leaves and luckily got the opportunity to use them, so I also went home.  

See you in New Year...

To be Continued.... Stay Tuned!!