"Year 2013"

I don't know what to say about this year, whether it was good or bad for me. I have mixed thoughts for this. This year started on a good note, the most awaiting event was his sister's marriage, so he was busy in that. January 2013 Di got married, we all were very happy for her. And soon after Di's marriage, our marriage talks started, which was pending for so long.

Our parents got ready finally and took decision that engagement should be in July and marriage would be in the end of year.

And after 5 months, finally the day arrived for which we both were waiting for ages. Our Engagement day 11th July 2013. We both were happy as well as tensed because when you do love marriage, you just feel everything should go hand-in-hand. Nobody should get angry on anything. All the arrangements should be proper. 
On the day of engagement, in the mid afternoon his family arrived at my place along with his relatives. After a quick refreshment we all proceeded to the convention hall for engagement function.

In the evening all the function started, first his parents did some rituals for me and then my parents did for him. After all these rituals the final moment came the Ring ceremony and we exchanged the rings... Aaha a moment to be remembered and cherished forever.


I stayed for 1 more week along with my parents and then I left for Bangalore. Till you are single, you won't feel any responsibility but take my words with one Ring in your hand, come lot of responsibility and I seriously realized that after my engagement. You automatically feels yourself mature.

Well now our parents started discussing about our marriage date. Since it should  be held in end of month, they need to fix the date as soon as possible as it was already July month and you wont get marriage hall booking easily in India.

And it was end of July month and my birthday. Well it was the best birthday ever with a heart shaped cake with a nice message on it, balloons, birthday capes, friends and we too.

Well I am feeling short of words now, can't describe my this phase properly as I don't want to re-call what happened after this.. worst August month of my life. Everything was going fine, my parents started preparations for my marriage, suddenly one day I got a call from my dad's number, but it was someone else who was calling me from my dad's phone. My Dad fell in an auto and that auto driver called me from his phone, I was screaming, crying, asking that guy to please take him to hospital as quickly as possible. After sometime I again got the call but this time I got the news which I never wanted to hear...my Dad left us, my life came to an end.
We were totally shocked from this incident... It was very difficult for all of us to get over from this and to start life normally.

I can't write more..on this, will continue this year 2013 journey in part 2 of this title.

To be Continued..
Stay tuned!!

Year'2012!!

New year started with the addition of a new member in my family, my nephew Deepanshu came into our life.. he's such a sweetheart. I went to my hometown in February to see him, my sister had also came to see him as well. It was a short trip so my parents didn't talk to me regarding the marriage matter .... aaha i was relieved.

After 3 months again I went home but this time it was my cousin's marriage. An awesome marriage, enjoyed a lot, after so many years, met all of my cousin's. During marriage time many people talked about my marriage to my parents, O God, these relatives sometimes interfere so much..in our personal matters.. (I just hate it).

During this time, Sachin's sister also got engaged and her marriage date also got fixed. It was a good news for us as my parents were waiting for his sister's marriage, so that they can talk to his parents regarding our marriage. 

And the day finally came after 2 month when our parents spoke to each other for the first time over phone. It was a causal talk. Sachin's Dad asked my Dad to come to his place so that they can meet in person and discuss. My Dad accepted his invitation and fixed the meeting for post Diwali. We both were very nervous for our parents meeting, as we wanted everything to go smooth as they were meeting for the first time.

Finally the Meeting day came, my Dad and Jiju went to his place to meet his family. The meeting went well, but they didn't talk about marriage dates or something as his sister's marriage was pending. And his parents wanted to fix all these things post their daughter's marriage. We both were bit relaxed after this as now the things were under control and our parents were quite OK with our decisions.

Overall the year 2012 was a fruitful year.

Stay Tuned!!

Diwali'11...!!

Whenever I comes back from my hometown, my Mom always asks me when you'll be back again? I used to always answer, let's see when I get leaves... but this time she was also relaxed as she was knowing I'll be back soon as it was Diwali after 2 months.  

We both were back in Bangalore, life was going on as usual, #work-#office-#weekends meeting... and so on... I was looking forward to go back again to home but was lil upset also as his birthday was just 2 days before Diwali and we'll not be able to celebrate it together.

The problem with couple's who go to their hometown is, when you're @ home, you cannot talk to each other much as you have to give time to your family as you went to see them after long time and yes they deserve your time out of your so called professional life atleast when you're @ home with them.

As we were no less then these kind of couple's we used to hardly speak to each other when we were @ our home with family. Once or maximum twice, we used to speak with each other. It was difficult for me and him to talk in midnight on his birthday.... we didn't speak in night .... sad sad sad....as it was winter's time and anybody can hear if we're talking on phone.

Finally in morning we spoke and I wished him on his birthday.  A very happy birthday!!!  We spoke for hardly 5-10 mins. As we were about to meet after 4 days on our way back home in Train!!

Aahh!! Our exciting train journey, exciting because we didn't get tickets for direct train to Bangalore, so we had to book train ticket till Chennai and from there via bus we had to reach Bangalore. So we got lot of time to chat with each other. But on the other hand we were tried to the core as it was the longest journey... 

Finally we reached Bangalore next day mid-night fully tired, fully exhausted!!

Stay tuned !!